Sex Tips for Men – Find Out How to Hit That G-Spot

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Jul 22

As you lie in bed with a huge grin on your face thinking you are the king of kings when it comes to pleasuring the ladies, well, guess what? The woman lying beside you may have faked her orgasm. Yes, a lot of women do it for many different reasons. Not wanting to make you feel bad about yourself is one of them.

But, don’t be too hard on yourself, man. Somewhere along the way you may be doing something wrong like not hitting the right spots, perhaps? Cheer up and get back on your feet. This article contains sex tips for men with some of the best sex positions to help your ladylove reach orgasm.

But, before that learn how the female orgasm takes place, so you’ll gain a better understanding of how these sex positions will help.

Discovering the Secrets of the Elusive and Mysterious Female Orgasm

The first thing you need to understand is not all women will reach orgasm every time they have sex with their partners. According to surveys, only 25 percent of women reach orgasm every time they have sex. Do not beat yourself up if this happens to you and your partner.

female orgasmAnother thing you should know, hitting the rights spots will most likely bring her to the elusive and mysterious female orgasm. Why mysterious? Because experts are not sure yet of the role orgasm plays in reproduction. Women can still get pregnant without orgasm, but what they do know and what women know, as well, is that orgasm feels good. In fact, orgasm is so pleasurable to your lady, that a part of a woman’s brain responsible for her behavior temporarily shuts down, according to a study from the University of Groningen in the Netherlands.

Where are the right spots to hit, you might ask? Most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation or in simpler words, by stimulating the clitoris. The clitoris is that tiny protruding button-like thing on the upper outer part of a woman’s vagina. The clitoris has twice more nerve endings than a man’s penis, making it super sensitive to licking, rubbing and sucking.

About 30 percent of women can orgasm through vaginal penetration, even without clitoral stimulation, but this can be quite tricky. This requires hitting the G-spot, another erogenous zone located inside the vagina. According to experts, you can find the G-spot about two to three inches on the inner front vaginal wall.

Sex experts say hitting the G-spot not only brings immense pleasure, but it is also responsible for the female ejaculation, or “squirting,” as the world of porn calls it.

not enjoying sex with youWithout question, a woman’s orgasm is as important as your orgasm; however, not being able to achieve it does not mean your lady is not enjoying sex with you. A lot of women admit sexual satisfaction even in the absence of orgasm. Nevertheless, giving her the big O will surely blow her mind, but be sure to watch out for the signs that she might be faking it.

For tips on how to spot a fake female orgasm, read this article.

Six Tips for Men: The Best Sex Positions That Bring Female Orgasm

Orgasm does not always equate to sexual satisfaction in women, but reaching it will surely bring your lady’s sexual experience to the next level.

Be a little creative and adventurous in bed. Here are sex tips guys need to make sure they hit the right spots including the G-spot:

1. Ankles Up

You can easily spice up some of the most common sex positions by making a few adjustments here and there. If you are on top, aim for a deeper penetration to hit the G-spot by raising one or both of her legs up, and place the ankles on your shoulders. She can also bend her knees fully and hold it to her sides, or she can raise her legs in a V-shape.

The thing is, not all women are comfortable with deep penetration. Some may even find it painful. If she complains, then shift to another position.

2. Coital Alignment Technique

Many say this is the best sex position for clitoral stimulation. Therefore, you should try this one if you want to give her an orgasm.

To do the coital alignment technique, start in the missionary position. This time, do not use your elbows to support your weight. Let your full body weight rest on top of her. Position yourself in a manner that your hips are at level with her hips so that the base of your penis easily touches the clitoris.

As she wraps her legs around your thighs, both of you should move in a rhythmic pattern. The base of your penis should come into contact with the clitoris with every move.

3. Cowgirl With a Twist

CowgirlWith her on top, lie flat on your back and let her take control of the pace and depth of the penetration. To make things easier and more pleasurable for her, bend your knees so you can support her butt and back. Place your arms on your sides at a 45-degree angle then bend your elbows and hold her hands for support. She can also place her hands on your chest so she can easily grind as you hold her hips and meet each other’s thrust.

4. Crisscross

Crisscross may sound difficult, but it is easier than you think. You can do it in multiple ways. In the first crisscross position, you both lie on your sides with her body perpendicular to you and her back against you. Let her lift her one leg up as you position yourself in between her legs.

Another option is to make her lay on her side with her leg stretched out straight. Let her lift her one leg up at a 90-degree angle. Penetrate her with you in a kneeling position as you hold her raised leg.

Since your bodies are not in an extremely proximity you can easily use your hand or her hand to rub her clitoris.

5. Cross-LeggedLet her sit on your lap

The cross-legged position offers maximum penetration as you let her take control of the movements and pace. Sit in the center of the bed with legs crossed like a pretzel. Let her sit on your lap and let her legs wrap around your waist. You can slowly move in slow and gentle rocking motions as you kiss tenderly, or you can meet each other’s movement for deep thrusts.

6. Doggie Style

This one is among the men’s favorites because you can get a clear view of the penetration and her behind. The doggie style is a good way to stimulate the G-spot, and your girl can easily adjust angles that give her the best pleasure. As you penetrate her from behind you can stimulate her clitoris or let her do the job as you fondle her breasts, whatever suits you both.

If she is one of the women who cannot orgasm through vaginal penetration alone, then keep your hands working at the front, as well.

7. Edge of the Bed

This position offers deep penetration and a full view of the penetration. Position her hips on the edge of the bed. She can lie down on her back or support her upper body weight with her arms. As you penetrate her, you can raise her legs on your shoulders or just let them touch the floor. Your groin should be in line with hers. It can get uncomfortable if your bed is a bit high or low. You can do it elsewhere, or you can bend a bit to adjust the height.

8. Girl on Top

Girl on TopWith her on top, she can easily control the depth of penetration and movements that give the best pleasure. Of course, you have to put an effort, as well. Straddling can exhaust her, so help her by moving her hips up and down as she stimulates her clitoris.

Another variation of the girl on top that allows clitoral stimulation is doing it similar to the missionary style.  Let her rub her body against you while you fondle her breasts and suck her nipples. Let her do anything she wishes.

9. Kneeling

Sit on a chair with no armrest like the one you can find in your dining room. Let her straddle you and let her have control over the depth of the penetration and pace of the thrusting. Straddling can be tiring, but with her feet flat on the ground she can easily support her weight and movements. She can do this by facing you or facing away from you.

If she is facing you, get your hands and mouth busy with her breasts. If she is facing away from you, get your hands working on her clitoris. If she offers to do the clitoral stimulation, assist her hip movements with your hands.

10. Magic Mountain

pillowsYou need about four pillows to perform this position. Pile up the pillows on the floor or bed then let her kneel and lean on it. Ask her to spread her legs apart then kneel at her back with your legs in between her legs. With her back glued to your chest, gently penetrate her from behind. Magic Mountain allows maximum penetration, and the pillows provide great support.

11. Missionary

This sex position may seem one of the most boring and less creative, but interestingly a lot of women are huge fans of the missionary. They say they love the closeness of being face-to-face with their partners and the intimacy of feeling their partner’s weight on them.

You may already be familiar with the missionary position by now. What you do not know is that you do many twists to it to make it more exciting. You can make her lie down on the bed with her head dangling off the edge of the bed or prop a pillow under her butt and enter her at a higher angle.

The key to making missionary more effective in reaching orgasm is to do diagonal movements instead of the usual push and pull. Diagonal movements allow more clitoral stimulation.

12. Reverse Cowgirl

This is one of the sex positions men love, and sure enough, your woman will love it, too. Lie in bed and let her straddle you with her back turned against you. She can try many different twists to the reverse cowgirl position. She can put her face a few inches from your feet as she grinds or she slightly leans her back towards your chest while she spreads her legs open.

The best thing about reverse cowgirl is it provides easy access to the clitoris. You can stimulate her clitoris as she straddles you or she can do it on her own at her desired pace and pressure.

13. Spooning

If you want to get intimate on a lazy Sunday morning, the spooning position is your best option. Penetration focuses on stimulating the front portion of the vaginal wall where you can find the G-spot and your hands are free to roam and stroke her clitoris.

The spooning position requires you to lie on the bed on your sides with her back turned against you. Your bodies in a tight proximity as you lay parallel to each other with your hips placed against the curve of her butt. As its name implies, your position should look like two spoons with its curved parts fitted together.

14. Standing Against a Wall

StandingStanding against a wall while having sex works for a quickie with the best penetration. Make her lean against a wall with her shoulders and back completely resting against it. Lift her from the waist so she can wrap her legs around your waist. She can hold against a counter or table to help support her weight. You may think this is easy but it can be uncomfortable if you have different heights and if she has weak legs.

15. The Bridge

The bridge position offers maximum penetration because your penis and her vagina meet at the perfect angle. It can be a bit difficult, but the pleasure you get from it is definitely worth it.

To do the bridge position, let your lady lie on her back with arms stretch to the sides and knees bent. Kneel and position yourself between her legs. Lift her hips as she arches her back so her vagina can meet your penis. Her feet should be flat on the bed and her arms on her sides for support. You can put a pillow under her back to prevent discomfort.

Another variation of the bridge requires you to on all fours with your front body facing the ceiling. Spread your legs wide apart and let her straddle you in a sitting position facing you or faced against you. The difficult thing about this position is you have to support your weight and her weight with your arms and legs.

16. The Pinner

This position is a bit like spooning, but done in a different manner. Let her lie on her stomach face-down on the bed. Her legs should stretch out and remain close together. Ask her to lift her hips a bit to create easy access to her vagina from behind. In a push-up-like position, enter her from behind by gently sliding your penis towards the entrance.

The belly down position provides better stimulation of the front vaginal wall where you can find her G-spot. You can prop a pillow under her hips for support.

17. The Spider

This position offers maximum penetration, easy access to the clitoris and a full view of the pumping action.

To do the spider sex position, you need to both sit on the bed facing each other and your legs pointing towards each other. Bend you knees slightly and lean on your back with your arms as support. Spread your legs wide apart and let her move between your legs. Let her spread her legs apart with her feet on the sides of your hips and flat on the bed. Her arms should lean backward for support.

sexPenetrate her slowly, then make a back and forth motion instead of thrusting. She can also meet your movement or use her one hand to stimulate her clitoris.

With these sex tips for men, you do not have to a genius to hit the right spots and make your lady scream in orgasm; however, the best advice you will ever run into if you want to give her the big O is not found elsewhere.

This is because the best advice for men like you will come from your partners. Do not hesitate to ask her. For all you know she has been waiting for it. And hey, do not forget to use your tongue and fingers if penetration using your penis seems not to work.

You do not have to stick to the old disappointing bedroom habits. With these 17 sex positions, you will surely hit the right spots.

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