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Jul 22

Sex Tips for Men – Find Out How to Hit That G-Spot

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As you lie in bed with a huge grin on your face thinking you are the king of kings when it comes to pleasuring the ladies, well, guess what? The woman lying beside you may have faked her orgasm. Yes, a lot of women do it for many different reasons. Not wanting to make you feel bad about yourself is one of them.

But, don’t be too hard on yourself, man. Somewhere along the way you may be doing something wrong like not hitting the right spots, perhaps? Cheer up and get back on your feet. This article contains sex tips for men with some of the best sex positions to help your ladylove reach orgasm.

But, before that learn how the female orgasm takes place, so you’ll gain a better understanding of how these sex positions will help.

Discovering the Secrets of the Elusive and Mysterious Female Orgasm

The first thing you need to understand is not all women will reach orgasm every time they have sex with their partners. According to surveys, only 25 percent of women reach orgasm every time they have sex. Do not beat yourself up if this happens to you and your partner.

female orgasmAnother thing you should know, hitting the rights spots will most likely bring her to the elusive and mysterious female orgasm. Why mysterious? Because experts are not sure yet of the role orgasm plays in reproduction. Women can still get pregnant without orgasm, but what they do know and what women know, as well, is that orgasm feels good. In fact, orgasm is so pleasurable to your lady, that a part of a woman’s brain responsible for her behavior temporarily shuts down, according to a study from the University of Groningen in the Netherlands.

Where are the right spots to hit, you might ask? Most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation or in simpler words, by stimulating the clitoris. The clitoris is that tiny protruding button-like thing on the upper outer part of a woman’s vagina. The clitoris has twice more nerve endings than a man’s penis, making it super sensitive to licking, rubbing and sucking.

About 30 percent of women can orgasm through vaginal penetration, even without clitoral stimulation, but this can be quite tricky. This requires hitting the G-spot, another erogenous zone located inside the vagina. According to experts, you can find the G-spot about two to three inches on the inner front vaginal wall.

Sex experts say hitting the G-spot not only brings immense pleasure, but it is also responsible for the female ejaculation, or “squirting,” as the world of porn calls it.

not enjoying sex with youWithout question, a woman’s orgasm is as important as your orgasm; however, not being able to achieve it does not mean your lady is not enjoying sex with you. A lot of women admit sexual satisfaction even in the absence of orgasm. Nevertheless, giving her the big O will surely blow her mind, but be sure to watch out for the signs that she might be faking it.

For tips on how to spot a fake female orgasm, read this article.

Six Tips for Men: The Best Sex Positions That Bring Female Orgasm

Orgasm does not always equate to sexual satisfaction in women, but reaching it will surely bring your lady’s sexual experience to the next level.

Be a little creative and adventurous in bed. Here are sex tips guys need to make sure they hit the right spots including the G-spot:

1. Ankles Up

You can easily spice up some of the most common sex positions by making a few adjustments here and there. If you are on top, aim for a deeper penetration to hit the G-spot by raising one or both of her legs up, and place the ankles on your shoulders. She can also bend her knees fully and hold it to her sides, or she can raise her legs in a V-shape.

The thing is, not all women are comfortable with deep penetration. Some may even find it painful. If she complains, then shift to another position.

2. Coital Alignment Technique

Many say this is the best sex position for clitoral stimulation. Therefore, you should try this one if you want to give her an orgasm.

To do the coital alignment technique, start in the missionary position. This time, do not use your elbows to support your weight. Let your full body weight rest on top of her. Position yourself in a manner that your hips are at level with her hips so that the base of your penis easily touches the clitoris.

As she wraps her legs around your thighs, both of you should move in a rhythmic pattern. The base of your penis should come into contact with the clitoris with every move.

3. Cowgirl With a Twist

CowgirlWith her on top, lie flat on your back and let her take control of the pace and depth of the penetration. To make things easier and more pleasurable for her, bend your knees so you can support her butt and back. Place your arms on your sides at a 45-degree angle then bend your elbows and hold her hands for support. She can also place her hands on your chest so she can easily grind as you hold her hips and meet each other’s thrust.

4. Crisscross

Crisscross may sound difficult, but it is easier than you think. You can do it in multiple ways. In the first crisscross position, you both lie on your sides with her body perpendicular to you and her back against you. Let her lift her one leg up as you position yourself in between her legs.

Another option is to make her lay on her side with her leg stretched out straight. Let her lift her one leg up at a 90-degree angle. Penetrate her with you in a kneeling position as you hold her raised leg.

Since your bodies are not in an extremely proximity you can easily use your hand or her hand to rub her clitoris.

5. Cross-LeggedLet her sit on your lap

The cross-legged position offers maximum penetration as you let her take control of the movements and pace. Sit in the center of the bed with legs crossed like a pretzel. Let her sit on your lap and let her legs wrap around your waist. You can slowly move in slow and gentle rocking motions as you kiss tenderly, or you can meet each other’s movement for deep thrusts.

6. Doggie Style

This one is among the men’s favorites because you can get a clear view of the penetration and her behind. The doggie style is a good way to stimulate the G-spot, and your girl can easily adjust angles that give her the best pleasure. As you penetrate her from behind you can stimulate her clitoris or let her do the job as you fondle her breasts, whatever suits you both.

If she is one of the women who cannot orgasm through vaginal penetration alone, then keep your hands working at the front, as well.

7. Edge of the Bed

This position offers deep penetration and a full view of the penetration. Position her hips on the edge of the bed. She can lie down on her back or support her upper body weight with her arms. As you penetrate her, you can raise her legs on your shoulders or just let them touch the floor. Your groin should be in line with hers. It can get uncomfortable if your bed is a bit high or low. You can do it elsewhere, or you can bend a bit to adjust the height.

8. Girl on Top

Girl on TopWith her on top, she can easily control the depth of penetration and movements that give the best pleasure. Of course, you have to put an effort, as well. Straddling can exhaust her, so help her by moving her hips up and down as she stimulates her clitoris.

Another variation of the girl on top that allows clitoral stimulation is doing it similar to the missionary style.  Let her rub her body against you while you fondle her breasts and suck her nipples. Let her do anything she wishes.

9. Kneeling

Sit on a chair with no armrest like the one you can find in your dining room. Let her straddle you and let her have control over the depth of the penetration and pace of the thrusting. Straddling can be tiring, but with her feet flat on the ground she can easily support her weight and movements. She can do this by facing you or facing away from you.

If she is facing you, get your hands and mouth busy with her breasts. If she is facing away from you, get your hands working on her clitoris. If she offers to do the clitoral stimulation, assist her hip movements with your hands.

10. Magic Mountain

pillowsYou need about four pillows to perform this position. Pile up the pillows on the floor or bed then let her kneel and lean on it. Ask her to spread her legs apart then kneel at her back with your legs in between her legs. With her back glued to your chest, gently penetrate her from behind. Magic Mountain allows maximum penetration, and the pillows provide great support.

11. Missionary

This sex position may seem one of the most boring and less creative, but interestingly a lot of women are huge fans of the missionary. They say they love the closeness of being face-to-face with their partners and the intimacy of feeling their partner’s weight on them.

You may already be familiar with the missionary position by now. What you do not know is that you do many twists to it to make it more exciting. You can make her lie down on the bed with her head dangling off the edge of the bed or prop a pillow under her butt and enter her at a higher angle.

The key to making missionary more effective in reaching orgasm is to do diagonal movements instead of the usual push and pull. Diagonal movements allow more clitoral stimulation.

12. Reverse Cowgirl

This is one of the sex positions men love, and sure enough, your woman will love it, too. Lie in bed and let her straddle you with her back turned against you. She can try many different twists to the reverse cowgirl position. She can put her face a few inches from your feet as she grinds or she slightly leans her back towards your chest while she spreads her legs open.

The best thing about reverse cowgirl is it provides easy access to the clitoris. You can stimulate her clitoris as she straddles you or she can do it on her own at her desired pace and pressure.

13. Spooning

If you want to get intimate on a lazy Sunday morning, the spooning position is your best option. Penetration focuses on stimulating the front portion of the vaginal wall where you can find the G-spot and your hands are free to roam and stroke her clitoris.

The spooning position requires you to lie on the bed on your sides with her back turned against you. Your bodies in a tight proximity as you lay parallel to each other with your hips placed against the curve of her butt. As its name implies, your position should look like two spoons with its curved parts fitted together.

14. Standing Against a Wall

StandingStanding against a wall while having sex works for a quickie with the best penetration. Make her lean against a wall with her shoulders and back completely resting against it. Lift her from the waist so she can wrap her legs around your waist. She can hold against a counter or table to help support her weight. You may think this is easy but it can be uncomfortable if you have different heights and if she has weak legs.

15. The Bridge

The bridge position offers maximum penetration because your penis and her vagina meet at the perfect angle. It can be a bit difficult, but the pleasure you get from it is definitely worth it.

To do the bridge position, let your lady lie on her back with arms stretch to the sides and knees bent. Kneel and position yourself between her legs. Lift her hips as she arches her back so her vagina can meet your penis. Her feet should be flat on the bed and her arms on her sides for support. You can put a pillow under her back to prevent discomfort.

Another variation of the bridge requires you to on all fours with your front body facing the ceiling. Spread your legs wide apart and let her straddle you in a sitting position facing you or faced against you. The difficult thing about this position is you have to support your weight and her weight with your arms and legs.

16. The Pinner

This position is a bit like spooning, but done in a different manner. Let her lie on her stomach face-down on the bed. Her legs should stretch out and remain close together. Ask her to lift her hips a bit to create easy access to her vagina from behind. In a push-up-like position, enter her from behind by gently sliding your penis towards the entrance.

The belly down position provides better stimulation of the front vaginal wall where you can find her G-spot. You can prop a pillow under her hips for support.

17. The Spider

This position offers maximum penetration, easy access to the clitoris and a full view of the pumping action.

To do the spider sex position, you need to both sit on the bed facing each other and your legs pointing towards each other. Bend you knees slightly and lean on your back with your arms as support. Spread your legs wide apart and let her move between your legs. Let her spread her legs apart with her feet on the sides of your hips and flat on the bed. Her arms should lean backward for support.

sexPenetrate her slowly, then make a back and forth motion instead of thrusting. She can also meet your movement or use her one hand to stimulate her clitoris.

With these sex tips for men, you do not have to a genius to hit the right spots and make your lady scream in orgasm; however, the best advice you will ever run into if you want to give her the big O is not found elsewhere.

This is because the best advice for men like you will come from your partners. Do not hesitate to ask her. For all you know she has been waiting for it. And hey, do not forget to use your tongue and fingers if penetration using your penis seems not to work.

You do not have to stick to the old disappointing bedroom habits. With these 17 sex positions, you will surely hit the right spots.

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Jul 08

How to Love Your Wife: Make Her Fall Deeply in Love Again

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Love is not a noun; it is a verb. Sorry, this is not a lesson in grammar. The meaning of the phrase is that love is not “something.” Love is actually something that you do. Love is an action word. For this reason, there are many actions that teach you how to love your wife.

By following through on some basic actions that this article outlines, you can resolve any difficulties in your love life and possibly even turn things around. Although you can use the tips mentioned below on their own, you will find that many tips are synergistic. While reading the article, look for such synergies.

Also, maintain a mental note of all tips on how to love your wife better that you can execute immediately. The article is written such that all tips are relevant to a wide audience, but feel free to tweak the tips as you see fit, depending on your relationship and her personality, too.

1. How to Love Your Wife Unconditionally: Vocalize Your Feelings for Her

loving relationshipAssumptions about what another person feels are seldom accurate. No matter how well you know somebody, you can’t take things for granted. In order to foster a loving relationship with your wife, it’s essential that you vocalize all your positive feelings for her.

If you haven’t told her that you love her in a long time, you can make a start by writing a simple “I love you” note. Leave the note on her pillow or pin it on the fridge; but make sure that she sees it and knows that it’s from you. If you’re feeling particularly creative, you can write love letters to your wife.

Try This Fun Trick

Another great way to verbalize positive vibes is to offer compliments. Here’s a fun trick for you to try:

  • Set a timer on your phone for 30 seconds.
  • Take a sheet of paper and a pen.
  • Start the timer and begin writing down any compliment that comes to your mind.
  • Stop after the 30 second limit is over.
  • Look at your list of compliments and select the best one.
  • Call or text your wife to share your compliment.
  • Don’t talk about anything else.
  • She needs to feel that you called her just to offer the compliment.

Give it a try now. If you and your buddies are always trying to figure out imaginative ways to love your wives, the results will astound you.

2. Make Her Feel Special: How to Love Your Wife Again and Again

cookingYou’re probably thinking, “Easier said than done,” but you’ve got to realize that making your wife feel special is not about big, grandiose gestures. Small, but thoughtful, gestures work miracles, as well.

The key to making her feel special is to do something for her that you normally don’t do without any prompting or prodding. For instance, offer to watch the kids, so that she can go out and have a good time with her friends or do the dishes without her asking.

The thing about small gestures is that they are easy to do, but still grant significant relationship boosts. Moreover, since they are easy to do, you can stack multiple thoughtful deeds together to produce a positive impact that’s greater than the sum of all parts.

For example, cooking dinner and doing the dishes or taking out the trash and doing the laundry.

3. The Biggest Gift You Can Give Her: Show Her That You’re Listening

eye contact“He just doesn’t listen.” If there were a hall of fame for complaints wives have about their husbands, this phrase would be there. Nothing upsets wives more than husbands who don’t listen. On the other hand, actively listening to what your wife says produces results that seem nothing less than magical.

Here are a few simple strategies you can use to become a wonderful listener:

  • Maintain steady eye contact with your wife while she’s speaking with you.
  • Discover more about her world by asking questions.
  • Make sure that she is speaking more than you are.
  • Find she’s speaking do not think about what you’re going to say in response.
  • Do not multitask while listening to her.
  • Periodically remind yourself to listen actively.

Active listening does require some practice before it becomes second nature. After active listening becomes a part of your being, every area of your life begins to shine. For this reason, the time you spend on becoming a better listener will definitely be worth it.

4. Help Her Expand Her Realm of Experience

relationship with youOne of the most intimate ways how to love your wife is to help her grow as a person. When your wife begins to see you as a person who champions her cause, she’ll begin to view her relationship with you in a brand-new light.

When you listen to your wife, as suggested in the previous step, listen carefully for your wife’s unrealized dreams, goals, and ambitions. You can even write it down somewhere discreetly. Once you know what your wife’s heart craves, you can marshal your resources to make her wish come true.

You can think of it as becoming her wish-granting genie. Encourage her to resume a hobby, expand her skillset, or seek a more fulfilling job. The core principle here is that you give her do what she loves and she’ll return that love tenfold.

5. Know More About Her Than Facebook Does

Only a few people seem to be blessed with the ability to remember special occasions without having to rely on Facebook. A husband not remembering the wedding anniversary has been the subject of many comedies and tragedies on TV.

An Eye-Opening Facebook Exercise for You

So here’s an interesting exercise for you. The next time you get a chance, visit your wife’s Facebook profile and look at the information in fields, such as music, books, films, and TV programs, and ask yourself the following questions:

  • How much of the information there is new to you?
  • If you were asked to fill the information fields for your wife, how successful would you be?

facebookThe answers to the above questions reveal how much you know about your wife’s tastes and likes. Thereafter, invent fields that are not on Facebook, such as favorite holiday destinations, leisure activities, or designer labels. Keep an electronic journal on your phone, listing these fields, and progressively add entries to it.

You can think of this activity as tasting a delicious dish and guessing its ingredients. In the same manner, your wife is a wonderful person who is made of many amazing attributes and characteristics. As you learn more about your wife as a person, your appreciation for her grows and your love for her becomes deeper.

According to the Bible, you reap what you sow. In fact, many women search for ways on how to love your husband according to the bible. So, on the other end of the spectrum, your wife will acknowledge and reciprocate your interest in her.

Therefore, as you know more, your relationship grows more. After all, how can you be lovers, when you aren’t even friends?

6. Lend Your Support: Be There with Her and for Her

Technology has made it incredibly convenient for people to keep in touch with each other. On the flipside, keeping in touch, although useful, is not a substitute for spending time together. That’s why it’s important to spend time together in person.

spending time togetherIdeally, you should use any form of electronic communication only to manage the logistics. In other words, when you’re separated physically, use technology to moves you towards spending time with your wife physically. For example, when you’re in the office call your wife to let her know that you like to spend the evening cooking dinner with her or text her to get ready at seven, so that you can take her out for dinner.

Of course, you don’t have to plan something for every day. You can create regular timeslots in which you and your wife spend time doing something together. One way you can do this is by going for a morning walk with your wife at the same time every day. Another great idea is to watch a TV show that you both love together.

Spending time in person works much better than spending the same amount of time communicating electronically because when you’re with someone physically the communication channels are much stronger. Compare a two-dimensional image of a chocolate cake with the real deal. Which one do you think gives you a better appreciation for the cake?

You can draw on the list of fields you’ve been tracking and scan your local listings for events that cater to her interests. By doing so, you can leverage the benefits of every point we’ve mentioned so far.

7. She Notices: Take Care of Yourself

This may sound a little selfish, but taking care of yourself is an excellent way of showing your partner how much you love her. There are four areas you must pay attention to, and they are as follows:physical fitness

  • Physical Fitness: Exercise for at least 150 minutes every week. Your exercise routine should enhance your strength, flexibility, and endurance. In addition to that, regular exercise improves your physique, makes you feel confident when naked, and improves your performance in bed.
  • Appearance: Make sure that you present yourself well whenever you go out. Wear situation appropriate clothing that’s neat, clean, and fits you well. Wash and fix your hair well. If you have facial hair, groom it properly.
  • Stress Management: People tend to vent out their frustration on the people closest to them. To avoid this, you need to adopt stress management practices, such as yoga or meditation. If you can leave stress at the door when you enter your home, your wife will appreciate your ability greatly.
  • Proper Diet: You are what you eat. Ensure that you feed your body properly. Get the right nutrients, in the right quantity, and at the right time. A proper diet complements the exercise regime, and thereby improves the way you look and feel. Just a couple of weeks of eating the right way, will grant you an incredible energy boost.

8. Remember the Good Times: Visit Memory Lane Often

During the early stages of human evolution, the brain programmed itself to hold on to negative images as a method to survive. Unfortunately, this program still resides in the human psyche, even though as a species our survival is not severely threatened. Thus, we are predisposed to remembering unpleasant events in our lives. In order to offset this conditioning, we need to keep the good memories in existence.

journeyWhen you think about your relationship with your wife as a journey, what thoughts pop up in your mind immediately? Do you see all the good times overshadowing all the bad times, or is it the opposite? Irrespective of what your answer is, anything done to keep the positive past alive is always a worthy investment of time and effort.

So, if you have a photo from your honeymoon trip buried deep in some photo album in the attic, pull the photo out, frame it, and showcase it. Occasionally visit locations that are of significance, relationship wise. Talk often about all the good times that you shared.

Furthermore, remind yourself that the journey is not over. Each day in your life is an opportunity to plant pleasant mile stones. So be sure to create cherish able memories as you cherish memories. Such memorabilia can teach you how to love your wife when she hates you.

9. Sexual Healing: Fire Up the Passion in the Bedroom

Depending on how long you have been married, your sex life may or may not be as vibrant as it used to be; however, it is never too late to turn on the heat.

If you feel that the quality of your sex life has saturated, there are plenty of things you can do to improve the situation. Here are a few ideas about how to make love to your wife:passion in the bedroom

  • Learn and Master New Positions: Here’s some math for you. If you learn just five new positions, and use three of them per sex session, you have 60 ways of making love to your partner. So, pick up some new moves.
  • Don’t Forego Foreplay: From a woman’s perspective foreplay is extremely important. Therefore, take the time to stimulate your partner’s erogenous zones.
  • Increase Skin Contact: Your skin is a bundle of pleasure centres. Thus, you can increase sexual pleasure by increasing skin contact. To do this use sex positions that have more skin contact, such as spooning, and also, don’t skimp out on the cuddles and hugs.
  • Keep Tweaking the Variables: Sex comes with a lot of variables, such as the place, and the time. Keep changing these variables. If you have sex at night all the time, then try a different time, and instead of sticking to the bed as a rule, be more flexible – try the bathroom for a change.
  • Kiss Generously: Kisses are super intimate and you can use that to your advantage. A long, and deep kisses add a whole new dimension to your intercourse.
  • Use Oral Sex: If you haven’t been engaging in oral sex, then it’s time to change that. Oral sex is a wonderful turn on and doesn’t require a huge energy investment.

Communicate your sexual preferences with your partner and be receptive to hers. Doing this allows you to go beyond the suggestions above and take things to a whole new level. Sex is the closest things to physical union, and because of this, sex is an effective way to build a loving relationship.

10. Embrace Your Wife to Embrace the Change

embrace your wifeAdmit it, you’re not the same person that your partner fell in love with all those years ago. It’s equally true that your partner isn’t the same person that you fell in love with.

As your partner goes through her life, she acquires new beliefs, thoughts, and habits. As a result, she evolves as a person. You must learn to embrace the evolution. See are as who she is rather that seeing her as who you want her to be. When you begin to cherish the person she’s becoming, you’ll find it easy to accept her as she is. With that acceptance, comes love that is deeper than anything you’ve known before.

We all strive to reach a place where we belong, a place where we are accepted and loved unconditionally. If she finds that acceptance in you, she’ll come running into your arms and never leave. This is the key to blissful marriage.

For this to happen, you must play the long game. There is no shortcut. But just because it takes time, it doesn’t mean that it is difficult. Learn to enjoy the journey, and move forward knowing that you’re moving towards a wonderful destination.

End Goal: Mastery Over How to Love Your Wife

John “Hannibal” Smith from The A-Team described the end goal perfectly with his catch phrase, “I love it when a good plan comes together.” Any one idea presented here is potent enough to dramatically enhance the quality of your love life with your wife. If you can implement a few more of these suggestions, you can’t imagine the ways in which your life will change for the better.

love your wifeRemember, this is a marathon and not a sprint. It’s not a call to massive action. Instead, start with something small – something you can sustain. Once you establish that practice, move on to the next small action.

As for the results, you will begin to see some rapid improvements initially. However, after a while, things may start to slow down, but, don’t stop working. Keep trying and use your imagination, and soon you’ll see a spike again, because the cycle moves in a steady-spike rhythm.

Now you have all the ideas you can use on how to love your wife. So go ahead, fall in love with your wife again and make yourself the happiest married man alive. You both deserve to be happy, and all it takes is a little time and effort to reap the loving rewards.

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