10 Top Tips to Becoming Her Personal Porn Star

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Jul 21

Here’s a fact: When it comes to sex and matters between the sheets, every woman is different. While the preferences may vary from one woman to the other, one thing is for sure: they want to feel pleasure in bed. The problem now is, you are not sure what works for her and what doesn’t. At the same time, you don’t know if your strategies will work for her – or not.

Don’t worry. This does not mean it’s the end of your sexual career. Although every woman has her own idea of pleasure in bed, there are other strategies, which will surely work on all types of women. Take it from the experts, aka the porn stars. From mood-setting tips and sure-fire hits in the bedroom, here are top 10 things you need to do to make her crave for sex and want you more than ever.

1. Keep your Expectations Realistic

partnersThat is the problem with porn. Most men expect too much from their partners. They forget porn is like Hollywood – without any clothes.

It is meant to tickle your fantasies, stimulate your imagination in bed and make you orgasm even without contact. Still, this doesn’t mean you can do whatever you want with your girl, just because porn stars do it.

Sure, you have your own sex bucket list. However, make sure that this list is realistic and doable. Women are humans, and as much as they want to fulfill everything on your checklist, some things are just not meant to happen. Be realistic. Set realistic expectations, not just with your girl, but also for yourself. Believe it or not, male porn stars are just like you.

2. Communicate

A lot of men forget that sex requires communication, too. Aside from keeping your expectations realistic, you also need to talk to your girl and ask her if she is willing to do this and that.

Never assume that she is okay with fisting, anal sex or any other unconventional sex practices, unless you ask her and she says yes.

In line with keeping communication lines open, make sure that you ask her about her fantasies and preferences in bed. If you find it awkward to talk about it, always pay attention to her body language and breathing.

If you notice that she is pulling away when you do something, then don’t force it and do other things that you have on the table. On the other hand, if she gives you a go signal because of her “oohhs,” “ahhs,” and manner of breathing, then go for it.

Communication goes a long way, especially when you want success, not just in your sexual relationship, but also in your relationship as a whole.

3. Make Eye contact

Eye contactHere’s another fact: women are born emotional beings. With the exception of a few, this means that they crave for connections and passion over simple lust.

This also explains why women are willing to wait a few more dates before they decide to do the deed with you.

When you finally do, make sure to establish lots of eye contact. Whether she is giving you a blowjob, or you are busy down there, take some time to look into her eyes and assure her that it is more than just getting laid. Gaze into her eyes and give her that “I want you,” type of look. Even if there is lust somewhere, the point is looking into her eyes is one of the sexiest thing you can do. Plus, she will surely love you for that.

4. Explore Possibilities – With Her Consent, Of Course

Anything is possible when it comes to matters between the sheets. The beauty of sex is that it allows you to explore your capabilities and limitations, not just in bed but in your life as a whole.

Therefore, use that opportunity to explore. If you’ve been dying to try anal sex or anything outside the missionary position, then don’t be afraid to do it with her.

Here’s the catch: you need her consent first. Forcing your sexual fantasies onto her might mean sexual assault or rape – and you don’t want that. Talk to each other about your preferences in bed and come up with a plan on how to execute those fantasies. You can build trust, open the communication lines and make you both feel even closer.

5. Talk Dirty To Her

Talking dirtyAdmit it. Talking dirty, no matter how sexy it sounds, is something you can’t master overnight. This is because even women have a hard time doing this.

Apparently, this is one of the sexiest things you can do inside the bedroom, and to up your game in the sex department.

In between gazing into her eyes and exploring every inch of her body, say something that will surely turn her on. For starters, compliment what she is doing. Paying attention to her body is also a good place to start. Then in your sexiest tone, tell her what you want to do with her.

The important thing is to be confident and in command. If you don’t feel like saying certain things, then don’t say it. Again, try to be as comfortable as possible. It’s the ultimate turn on. If you feel too nervous to try it, start with a compliment or two. Every women appreciates it when her man tells her how much they love her curves, eyes and other physical attributes.

6. Alternate Foreplay And Sex

kissingHere’s the thing: sex should not be a linear action. Sticking to a process, which involves kissing, foreplay and sex is fine. However, this could be boring, especially when you follow the pattern most of the time.

Therefore, switch it up. Foreplay at the start is non-negotiable, but at least don’t just stick to humping as soon as you’re done paying a visit to her area down south.

The good thing about foreplay-sex-foreplay again is that it helps you stay longer in bed, since you are able to control your orgasms. At the same time, this surprises your girl, since most are used to foreplay then sex all the way. Change it up and be the better, longer-lasting dude in bed.

7. Pay Attention To Her Girly Parts

Foreplay is very important for getting women for hot sex. When it comes to the opening act, you need to make sure that you spend a considerable amount of time down there.

While you are exploring her thighs and labia area, there is one thing you must not forget at all costs – her clitoris.

Her clitoris is a key to many different kinds of sensation. When you are down there and busy eating her out, make sure to suck on her clit, too.

Surprisingly, it is a woman’s equivalent to your boner, so tease it as much as you can. Stroke it in circular motions, lick it, suck it and do whatever you want, as long as she’s okay with it.

A woman’s clitoris may be one of the main acts. However, take it easy when you are down there. Too much sucking and stroking can be painful for her, too. Follow her lead, her responses and you’ll do just fine.

8. Have Fun with Role-Playing

being experimental in bedAre you thinking of being experimental in bed? Trying different positions from your recent app download is fine. Dice games and other sex toys can boost your sex life, too.

However, if you want to be kinky and naughty with your girl, then role-playing is a strategy you should try.

The best thing about role-playing is that it allows you to play different characters – and go all out. Go for doctor-patient, teacher-student, police officer-offender, or ask your girl to dress up like a French maid as you watch her clean the house.

Make an effort to dress up and play your roles effectively, even if it’s just pretend. You’ll love it both, for sure.

9. Show Some Respect

womenMost men think that they can do all sorts of things with women while inside the bedroom. Sometimes, you need to draw a line and establish limitations.

Women may be complicated when it comes to material things, but when it comes to relationships, all they want is your attention, an emotional connection and an ability to please them, of course.

Therefore, show some love, appreciation and respect for your girl. Giving her late night massages or making her a sandwich after sex are some of the many ways you can show that she matters. Paying attention to the little things she likes and make her feel wanted and loved. Respect also goes a long way. The best part is she will respond to you in the most amazing and grateful ways she can.

10. Don’t Forget Your Own Needs, Too

both of you are happyMore importantly, don’t forget that you have needs, as well. Focusing on her needs and pleasure is fine. Still, keep in mind that sex is a two-way street.

This means that it needs you and her to be able to make it work, so both of you are happy.

Therefore, don’t be afraid to do things and positions that also work for you. If doggie style is a favorite, then go ahead and do it. It’s okay to masturbate during breaks, since even Superman deserves a few minutes for himself, right? This keeps you turned on and ready to get back in the game when break time is over.

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