Men and sex – seems like these two concepts always go together. Since time immemorial, men are perceived to want sex more than women, thanks to those timeless movies that depicted kings surrounded by tons of women by their bedsides. The question now is how well-versed are you when it comes to sex?
You may think you don’t need sex tips, especially if your guy is as big as your ego, assuming that you have a penis the size of an elephant’s trunk. However, men like you still need some reminding from time to time to make sure they provide only the best sexual experiences to their partners.
There is no harm in burying your ego deep down and listening to time-tested tips about sex. After all, women want more than just humping and kissing boobs. So, take out your pen and paper, and check out these ten must-have tips for more meaningful and pleasurable sex. You might be surprised with what’s in store for you and your man down there.
Surprised on the first tip? Don’t be. A lot of men are only about releasing those juices without even thinking what she feels during and after a lovemaking session.
Most men will just kiss her on the lips, suck her breasts, lick her down there, some in and out motion then boom, it’s over. Don’t be like those men when you can be the better guy.
It’s important to relay what you want and listen to what your lover wants, too. At the same time, don’t be afraid to ask about doing something different or unconventional. Be honest.
If she’s not open to the idea, don’t force the issue. Sex is more pleasurable when the two of you are enjoying what you’re doing. Or else, you might find yourself in court, being prosecuted due to a rape complaint.
Making exercise a habit can promote better cardiovascular health, which is important to maintain a normal erectile function.
And for the nth time, having a good blood flow down there is very important to keep your guy standing. After all, exercise makes the physical aspect of sex more enjoyable, because you are able to build better endurance.
And yes, women appreciate fit and lean bodies, so if you can, work out with her, too – in the gym, you dirty mind.
And in case you don’t know, exercise can also boost your T levels, which can actually improve your sex drive. Still, take it easy and don’t overdo it. Too much exercise can result in low energy and fatigue, which women do not appreciate.
Got plans for a romantic evening? That’s great. At least you and your girl are still making it up in the bedroom department.
In this case, try to start early – but this doesn’t mean locking yourself inside the room doing absolutely nothing but sex. Hello, you’re a grown up and still have responsibilities ahead of you.
Rather, try doing little things, sensual things to her as soon as the sun rises. Take a shower together but try your best not to do it. Give her a call or a steamy text message to get her in the mood. Kiss her passionately as soon as you pick her up. Increasing your emotional connection can help build up the arousal process and will definitely get you both in the mood, despite having a long and tiring day.
In other words, bring out the inner Christian Grey in you.
For most people, a trip to the grocery store is all about buying the essentials needed at home. That’s fine.
But if you really want to up your game in the playing field, then you might be surprised to find out that the supermarket has tons of things you can use for your lovemaking sessions. In fact, it is like a sex store disguised in the most wholesome way possible.
Aside from the usual stuff you need at home, buy something which you can use and can be integrated into sex play such as whipped cream, chocolate syrup, ice cream and even cucumber or banana. The point is to be creative and think of ways on how you can spice up your sex. Plus, you can even get a good laugh from seeing the look on the cashier’s face once you paid for your items.
Men are easy to deal with when it comes to sex. She’ll simply give you a blowjob until you are hard enough and that’s it. Apparently, women are different and more complicated. And when it comes to sex, there’s more in store for them than just licking their boobs.
In this case, try to think like a woman and be in her shoes. Think about what will satisfy you and the areas that needs to be tapped in order to keep you aroused, in case you are a woman.
Once you’re able to make that list, apply it. Give extra attention to her most neglected areas, thanks to you of course, such as her inner thighs, back, neck and even her feet.
At least now you know what it feels like to be a woman.
You sure heard about lottery and how they pull out a combination of numbers until a winner comes in and claim the prize. Try applying that in sex, only this time, there are no numbers involved.
With your girl, write down five to ten sexual fantasies – or even more – using note cards or index cards. Over dinner and a good wine, check out what you’ve written and place it in a pile for “yes,” “someday,” and “never.”
Then combine all the possible fantasies in one container, a shoe box or any other kind of thick boxes, personalize its look and once a month, pull out a winner for some fun and steamy sessions.
Excited? Go on, try it.
There is a big debate as to whether a woman’s g-spot exists or not. Whatever.
The point is there is one soft spot inside her, about two inches inside the vaginal opening, that once activated, will surely blow her mind and bring her orgasm to a whole different level.
It may be like looking for a needle in a haystack but once you’ve found it, you’ll surely be rewarded.
A piece of advice, just take it easy when you try to look for it. You want her screaming in pleasure, not in pain, so take it easy.
Oops, you didn’t see that coming, right? When it comes to sex, men have no sense of self-restraint and if only they can, they’ll want to have sex all night long. Well, that shouldn’t be the case.
When having sex, practice self-care and take care of your member as much as possible. Did you know that there are certain positions that can injure your man thing and cause permanent damage?
Believe it or not, there are certain positions, such as the reverse cowgirl, where, despite the view, can cause major damage if your partner isn’t really careful. Your penis might look like the Titanic broken down in the middle, no questions asked. That’s not all. Your penis might buckle in case of missed penetration, so make sure it is able to fit properly in the hole.
Again, self-care. Breathe, it’s going to be fine.
Condoms will always have a special place in your pocket in case an “emergency” strikes. But if you really want to be a boy scout, then always have a lubricant on hand.
Most guys think that women get wet only when they are in the mood. If they aren’t wet down there, they’re not in the mood.
The truth is women can still be in the mood mentally, but due to stress, fatigue or hormonal issues, it’s hard for their vagina to cooperate.
Be a better guy and have a lubricant within your reach. Aside from condoms, it’s surely going to be your newest best friend.
Sex is fun, period. Hence, make it a point to keep the fun and excitement going strong in the bedroom. The more fun you make it, the more enjoyable sex will be.
Don’t be afraid to experiment and let your imagination and creativity do the work. Keep in mind that having memorable sex is not only limited to how good your orgasm was. Quality over quantity, boys. And keep it clean and fun.
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